My First Love | Jeff Tolle | 01.18.26

Jan 18, 2026

This message invites us to examine our hearts and return to what truly matters: our first love for Christ. Through Revelation 2:1–7, Jesus speaks directly to the church in Ephesus, offering both affirmation and a loving correction that still speaks powerfully to the Church today.


Jesus reveals Himself as the One who holds the seven stars in His right hand—a symbol of power and authority—and who walks among the seven golden lampstands, representing the churches. This reminds us that we serve a present and active God, deeply involved in His Church, not distant or indifferent.


The church in Ephesus is recognized for its hard work, perseverance, patience, and commitment to truth. They endured difficulty without giving up. Yet Jesus lovingly confronts them with a serious concern: they had abandoned their first love. Though their good works continued, their passion, joy, and intimacy with Christ had faded.


This teaches us a vital truth: it is possible to do many good works and still lose the “why.” We can maintain activity without intimacy. But when love remains the priority, the works will naturally follow. First love is not only about timing—it is about priority.


Jesus calls the church to remember where they fell from, to repent, and to return to the works that once flowed from a deep love for Him. Just like in a marriage or a healthy lifestyle, intentional intimacy comes first, and passion follows.


The lampstand, like the menorah, requires oil to stay lit. Oil comes from pressed olives—symbolizing a life shaped through intimacy, surrender, and daily fellowship with God. A church built only on good deeds without connection to God becomes empty, no different from any other moral organization.


Jesus ends with a promise: to those who overcome, He will give access to the tree of life in the paradise of God. Paradise—a word used only a few times in Scripture—points us back to Eden, reminding us that God’s desire has always been to walk with His people in restored intimacy.